Judy Duffy

Judy Carol Duffy, 79, of Kingfisher, passed away peacefully on July 30, 2025, surrounded by the love of her family.

Born on Dec. 14, 1945, to Willard and Ruth Duffy, Judy lived a full and beautiful life centered around kindness, laughter and family. She was known for her generous heart and unwavering desire to care for others, traits that shaped every chapter of her life.

As a young woman, she made it her mission to help anyone in need. She never met a stranger because once you met Judy, you were a friend.

Judy is survived by her beloved sister and best friend, Wilma Duffy; her loving daughter, Lashawn Kochenower and husband Gary Kochenower; her beloved son, Dale Cason and wife Ashley Cason.

She was a proud grandmother to Maci Marti and husband Alexi, Pete Marti Jr., Cloi Kochenower, Ayden Cason and Emmy Cason; and a joyful great-grandmother (Gigi) to Emily Marti, Logan Marti, Max Marti and Olivia Marti and she had many wonderful nieces, nephews and family.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Willard and Ruth Duffy; her siblings Ray Gene Duffy, Patti Schweitzer and Jim Duffy; and nephew Jimmy Ray Duffy.

Judy found happiness in the little things: reading a good book, watching the Eagles and Buffalo and taking fun, spontaneous trips with Wilma.

But most of all, her heart was fullest when she was surrounded by her children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren, who were the light of her life.

Her sweet smile, gentle spirit and loving heart will be deeply missed and forever remembered by all who were lucky enough to know her.

A celebration of Judy’s life was Tuesday, Aug. 5, at Sanders Funeral Service Chapel in Kingfisher with graveside services following.

In Judy’s memory, let us carry forward her legacy of love, laughter and kindness.